Happiness Quotient

A Chinese Proverb says, “if you want happiness 


For some moments = indulge in any sense-pleasure

For an hour = take a nap or a walk 

For a day = go for a picnic

For a month = get married (debatable) 

For a year = inherit a fortune (that is, in one year you must have spent it) 

For a decade = get divorced (Well, Well, I added this one to make my married friends imagine happiness)

For a lifetime = give, give, give (love, care, help, time, patience, smile, tears to others in need of them.)

For eternity = know who you really are from the one who knows who he is not."


Now, we must ask ourselves, which happiness we want. We are all happy today since everything is in place as per our wish and want (house, wife, child, health, job, bank balance, knees, heart, liver, kidneys, lungs, the list is endless and subjective). Just imagine that one of the factors in this list is taken away. Now what happens to our “Happiness Quotient” is a true indicator of how happy we really are. Life can never ever move smoothly in a straight line. If it does beyond a point, understand you are dead. The monitor in an ICU says this (when it shows a straight line), not me…


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  1. ashikeenNovember 13, 2023 at 4:25 AM

    I read something interesting which said to be truly happy you need an impeccable memory..puzzled me at first..what he meant was...if we truly keep recalling every little thing that is right in our lives it sets in place the attitude of gratitude...then the blips in the normally straight line are taken with a smile 😃

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