On Marrying
The one Question which seems to be untiring about me is “Why are you not married?” While I have no answer about this, a few thoughts on it do surface. Initially when the marriage “season” originated in my life, it was an egoistic thought of meeting the one who will be able to take care of my insanity. When immature wisdom dawned a little later, the thought changed to “Will I be able to take care of her?” But still immature, since it was devoid of the understanding that real care can be possible only when we observe religiously the laws of emotions, unselfishness, and of giving. Do we know or even feel the need to know what it takes to keep our life partner ever happy, cheerful, secure, and loving? Can we be unselfish enough to honour the commitments we make in our wedding vows? Ofcourse, most of us do not even know what we are committing in the marriage ceremony. If we knew, then the question of divorce and disrespect cannot arise. But alas, we choose our partner using criteri...